I Am…Perfect
9/5-26/23
What follows is the fruit of my meditation retreat at the beginning of
September. (And includes a line thanks to Iryna who included it in her
comments to me when I asked her if the sharing of all this was “over-the-
top.”)
I am complete confusion.
I am total clarity of mind.
I am a complete failure.
I am the most successful one.
I am painful agitation.
I am profound peace.
I am striving and wanting.
I am complete and utter satisfaction.
I am deliberate hurtfulness.
I am heart-felt love and nurturing.
I am evil incarnate.
I am Divine Love and Power.
I throw up blocks on the Path.
I see through and overcome “blocks” that are the Path.
I don’t know what the hell I’m doing.
I have complete faith in the Flow.
I mentally make up shit.
I am the one who sees the mind making up and attaching to that.
I want everything to be different.
I know the Perfection of All.
I am distracted mind.
I am one-pointed focus.
I am restricted breathing.
I am the relief of breath flowing freely.
I am the one trying to fulfill everyone’s desires.
I know they will never experience it as enough.
I am terror all the way to the bone.
I am loving Trust.
I am inferior to all.
There is no one better than me.
I try to do as I’m told.
I gleefully do the opposite of what I’m told.
I stress about doing things right.
I doubt there really is a right way.
I am the mountain top.
I am the valley.
I am a dedicated and helpful father and husband.
I couldn’t care less.
I provide endlessly for my family.
I take care of myself.
I am doubt about spiritual teachings and even about myself.
I trust the experience of those who have looked deeply at What Is and how a human being is made.
I think it’s All up to me!
I know what needs to be accomplished has already been
accomplished.
I love.
I hate.
I am dedicated.
I am lazy.
I want to find the One Right Thing.
I flow with the Eternal Uncertainty.
I seek a permanent ground in the ever-changing world.
I laugh at myself in the attempt (when I’m not crying).
I study the scriptures and attempt to Realize their Truths in my daily life.
I indulge in endless, useless distraction from anything meaningful.
I fill my day with interminable busyness.
I am committed daily to looking within for hours and to following the
guidance of the Spirit.
I eat healthy food.
I eat food that is not the best for this body.
I appreciate beauty.
I am fixated on what is ugly and wrong.
I am intensely devoted to the Divine Mother.
I forget about Her most of the time.
I have faith in the teachings of my Satguru.
I have a list of complaints for Her as well.
I dissolve in the infinite vastness of Space.
I pick nits about the most useless things.
I am an open heart.
I celebrate and cultivate the wall around the heart.
I am profoundly relaxed.
I am wound painfully tight.
I am a good listener.
I sometimes don’t care to listen.
I am open to new information.
I don’t need it because I already know it all.
I am highly predictable in my thoughts and behavior.
I act and think in surprising way at times.
I try to contort the Energy of Life to conform to my selfish comforts.
I let the Energy of Life change me as It will.
I don’t do drugs.
I like to get very high.
I struggle.
I surrender.
I accept things that I can’t change.
I accept things that I could change.
I try to change things I can’t change.
I change some things that I can.
I use discernment and intuition.
I attempt to make intelligent decisions with the selfish, ego-driven
mind.
I avoid pain and suffering.
I feel the pain and suffering consciously.
I fight the ocean of sorrow.
I embrace and befriend the sorrow.
I try to make my world smaller and smaller.
I actively allow my world to get bigger and bigger.
I withhold my heart.
I share my heart freely.
I take things for granted.
I am profoundly thankful.
I know what I’m talking about.
I am so full of shit, yet confident nonetheless.
I am pain.
I am bliss.
I am very far away.
I am right up close.
I am trying to get somewhere.
I am right where I am, not knowing where I’m going.
I am totally insane.
I am completely clear, grounded and mentally balanced.
I stampede through.
I calmly and patiently open to receive the Divine Mother’s Grace.
I am extreme gripping.
I am total acceptance and surrender.
I act as if The Point is to be Perfect.
I don’t even know what that is or if it’s even a thing!
I am a Higher Nature.
I am a lower nature.
I want what is best for All.
I want only what I think is best for me.
I am infinitely cramped space.
I am total expansiveness.
I want more, endlessly.
I am completely satisfied with what I have.
I love and feel supremely blessed by the Divine Mother.
I also passionately and unashamedly hate Her, my chosen Deity. (I
know who ultimately wins!)
I have no expectations.
I seem to be nothing but expectations.
I am internally rigid.
I am malleable and changeable.
I choose the Peace.
I choose the self-made agitation.
I share my thoughts and teachings openly and courageously.
I sometimes feel fear and vulnerability about sharing from the heart.
I am the one who only sees what it wants to see.
I am the one who willingly and easily sees what is True.
I am the one who actively fights what IS.
I am the one who merely stands aside and criticizes it all.
I am the Energy that is all of This.
I am the Loving Space that holds all This.
I am none of This.
I am…Perfect, as the Divine Mother Energy made me.
No wonder it’s so hard to be a human being.
“Each of you is perfect the way you are … and you can use a little improvement.”
― Shunryu Suzuki
Perfect 🙂
Thank you for sharing this, Ti. It resonates for me because I see the opposites in myself too and I’m a little bit tired of striving. Accepting without judgement is not easy. Laughter helps! The best teachers are the most honest and real and it is your authenticity that comes through.
Beautiful, Beth. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I’m glad it resonated with you. I think we are on the same page in many ways. Accepting without judgement would be a piece of cake if it weren’t for pain! 🙂 Hence, as you noted, laughter helps! We keep going on the Path… -Ti
Thank you for sharing this, Ti; it’s beautiful and profound. ❤️❤️
🙂🙏